*chuckles* both with UUs and Quakers, the non-aggressiveness can only be pushed so far. Sunday's anthem was "We Are A Gentle, Angry People"... we may be love first, but we know how to get uppity when push comes to shove. And for the love of all that's holy, don't piss off the Quakers... they're kinda like Ents. Slow to anger, slow to come to consensus, but once they are decided, follow or get out the way, because leading is no longer an option.