(It both does and doesn't matter... whatever goes on between consenting sentient adults is *up to them*... it matters because sometimes some jerque or idiot thinks they shouldn't and makes a fuss. It also matters, and will matter more, because oftentimes people get into such a thing and screw up by the numbers... and at some point down the road I will be one of the people they turn to to pick up the pieces.)
(FWIW, if you hadn't seen, I'm on a track that leads to UU-affiliated seminary. Been taking care of people in various ways nearly three decades. Time to learn to do it right and make it my day job instead of wrangling these silicon-hearted bastards for enough free time to get out and do my Job...)
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Date: 2017-11-22 07:41 pm (UTC)(It both does and doesn't matter... whatever goes on between consenting sentient adults is *up to them*... it matters because sometimes some jerque or idiot thinks they shouldn't and makes a fuss. It also matters, and will matter more, because oftentimes people get into such a thing and screw up by the numbers... and at some point down the road I will be one of the people they turn to to pick up the pieces.)
(FWIW, if you hadn't seen, I'm on a track that leads to UU-affiliated seminary. Been taking care of people in various ways nearly three decades. Time to learn to do it right and make it my day job instead of wrangling these silicon-hearted bastards for enough free time to get out and do my Job...)